I’m convinced men like basic females on the low, gives them the upper hand. I also think when you see a super model chic with a flava flave looking guy 9/10 she can or does have the upper hand.
If you notice most relationships especially romantic are essentially based on establishing dominance power and control. In this society the male is supposed to be the dominate figure. But in black community the woman has taken on the dominate roles.This role reversal leads to a lot of conflict in the dynamic of the black relationship. The woman wants to lead because for so long she has been taught to be independent and the man wants to lead because that’s his “role”. This is just what I see, this is not ever case but what I have been thinking lately….