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It has been a while

I miss ya’ll.

It started out with me just being too busy to come and post. Between home life, dealing with my  hubby,my  kid, the kids sports, the kids school events, my school, and work I just had no time.

Then, (deep sigh) I had a death in my family. My oldest brother got killed 😦 D=, it happened the day after my 30th birthday on black Friday, which was the day before his daughter 11th birthday...SIGH .. So, November and December were not my months.

So, I have been pretty busy. I am apologizing, I have a lot of great post just like my old page..


Be Blessed Edna Moore-Washington 




Abusive Relationships

Posted: January 5, 2011 in Life, Relationship

My Best Friend Erika Lee The Founder Of  P.U.R.S.E  A Foundation That Focus On Teen Dating Violence. Made Me Repost A Post I Did Before About Abusive Relationship.

Her Website Is

and You Also Can Email Her

Abusive Relationships

Signs of an Abusive Personality

Dating should be a fun experience. To make sure you’re enjoying yourself, while staying safe, be aware of common signs in people with abusive personalities. If you’re using an online dating service, look for these types of traits in possible matches:
Extreme jealousy or possessiveness
Pushes for quick and intense involvement
Seems too good to be true
Needs to be in control
Unrealistic expectations of the relationship
Easily upset or angered

Once you are in an abusive relationship, it is difficult to get out. Therefore, recognizing the number one early warning sign of an abusive personality gives you the key to avoiding the whole problem. Someone with an abusive personality always displays an unusual amount of jealousy. Although this may at first seem flattering, the level of possessiveness will accelerate as the relationship progresses.

Leaving an Abusive Relationship
The process of leaving an abusive relationship is difficult and dangerous. Safety is the primary concern. Even if you do not think your partner poses a risk, leaving often triggers an increase in violence. It is best to prepare as much as you can ahead of time.

Ask a friend or family member to keep items you gather to take with you. Make sure the person you choose will not tell your abuser about your plans to leave. Do not take anything that will be noticed as missing.

Things to Stash Away:

Contact information for a local domestic violence shelter
Prescribed medications
Legal documents for you and your children (e.g. birth certificates, social security cards)
Photographs or written evidence of the abuse
Financial records and account numbers
Personal belongings possessing sentimental value
Clothing and personal needs

Things to Arrange:

A plan that safely removes yourself and you children from the home
Transportation for yourself, children and belongings
A safe place to stay
How to manage being gone from home for an extended time
Referral to a lawyer or legal advocate to obtain a personal protection order, temporary child custody order, etc.

Soul mate

Posted: December 6, 2010 in Life, Personal, Relationship

In our quest for happiness we must be sure that we don’t settle for a Playmates when God has a Soul mate waiting for us. Sometimes this is a hard distinction to make. Playmates are tricky. They are so much fun to be with that even the smartest of us will be fooled into thinking this has to be our Soul mate. Worse, yet too many of us attempt to make aSoul mate out of a Playmate.
The danger of this is that later after years of playing we will meet our Soul mate, but it may be too late. We may have already made a Lifemate of our Playmate and created life-long bonds (emotion, children,etc.). Or we may have been hurt from playing so hard that we are in no shape ourselves to be anyone’s anything. How can we distinguish between the One, and just another one?

First, we MUST be open with our selves about who we really are and what our soul yearns for. Only you and God know what is truly in your heart and mind.Only you know what will make you truly happy and whole. In order to find your Soul mate you have to know you, first. You must be willing to listen to that inner voice. And is that voice telling you that the nerdy person you enjoy talking and sharing your thoughts with, could be him? What about that friend who is always willing to go the extra mile for you when no one else will.
Then there’s that girl or guy who makes you feel so special when you’re around him/her, but he/she doesn’t match that ideal you have conjured in your head. Oh no! He’s too short or too tall, no six pack or too hairy, and on and on? Just too ordinary looking for me!
She’s too tall, not slender enough, not light or dark enough, not shapely enough, not attractive enough, and on and on. She just couldn’t be for me!
So what if he or she doesn’t look like Shemar Moore or Vivica Fox. Is he or she going to treat you like the jewel that you are?
Not only that, his or her soul and yours will commune in ways you never imagined possible! In order to heed that voice, we have to put on the back burner our own superficial thinking. Could it be that your inner desire is for a truly genuine person with a good heart?

If you enjoy playing, stay on the playground. There are plenty of Playmates out there to occupy your time.
But don’t spend too much time playing or you may play your life away.Eventually the playing loses it’s appeal and your soul begins to cravea deeper, more meaningful connection.

Your soul begins to crave your Soul mate. Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option….